We all go through things that we never think in a second that we would go through them..
At times you feel that in any minute you’re going to lose your mind.
I have always set my mind and lived with a belief that I never lose and that people lose me… it’s never the other way around.
I have lost a lot.. and I think I came to the point where I am numb now.
I don’t even blink in losing my connection with others.
Maybe it’s because I am comfortable with myself that I find it OK to be alone?
Or maybe I lost those ones who I never thought of losing so everything else seem so little now,,
It’s not an excuse though, for people to just enter my life attempt to ruin it and leave -just like that.
I worked so hard to be the person I am today. I fully believe that without those situations that I have been through; I wouldn’t be the person I am today.
I appreciate my good/bad side.
Change is good
Change is healthy
If you never changed you wouldn’t be where you are today.
In some situations, we think we’re stuck and thats the end because we hit a wall…
Turn around and change your pathway, walk a different lane; change your perspective in things….
At one point you got to realize that you are too good instead of not good enough.
Believe in the fact that God will never take something from you and not give something better in return.
Whenever you lose someone, something; Yes, feel the pain and be hurt we’re humans right?
But keep your heart steady and know that whatever you lost; you are getting something better instead.
We hold on too much into the things that we may lose in changing instead of what we’re going to gain….
This life is dynamic, which means that it is moving and does not stop for anything or anyone. Be like life..
“You cannot change somebody who doesn’t even see an issue in their actions.”
In all honestly we use up all our energy, thoughts, feelings and time in just waiting…
Get busy with yourself, for yourself.
Feel and know that you deserve the best.
Stop waiting for something that may never happen?
Stop imagining and making up senarios of things and situations that may never occur.
Yes, it gives you that little satisfaction but it only lasts a minute,, the rest of the time you go back into ( worrying, stressing) and using your thoughts, energy, feelings and time in WAITING.
” It’s better to have nobody than to have somebody who’s half way there or doesn’t want to be there.”
The people who are meant to be in yourself will always gravitate towards you.
Trust me when I say this, do not force anyone or anything to be in your life.
Let It Go.
Stop hanging in things that aren’t meant to be.
If you needed a sign? This Is It.
Free yourself from the pressure, pain and the guilt.
Who ever loves you, cares for you and about you; will always find a way.
Stop making up excuses.
Stop living a lie.
In the end, you only have yourself to blame.
Nobody knows what I go through because simply, I fall and get up again.
I cry, wipe my tears fix up my ponytail and get up again.
And If I fall, cry about and tell everyone then I wouldn’t be so sincere now wouldn’t I ?
Practice what you preach.
I could write more and go on and on,,, but I rather not.
I’ll leave you with these quotes that I keep close to my heart:
- “You will never be truly happy, if you constantly hold onto the things that makes you sad.”
- “Stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it.”
- “When something go wrong, take a moment and be thankful for all the things that are going right.”
- “To heal a wound you need to stop touching it.”
- “At some point you have to let go of what you thought should happen, and live what’s happening.”
- “Perhaps the problem isn’t the intensity of love, but the quality of people you are loving.”
- “I am too full of life to be half loves.”
You are worth it. Please don’t waste your time in believing any other thing.
xo Ms Poet